One of the most powerful tools for healing: books. Reading doesn’t change your reality, but it does change how you think about and process life experiences. It is our prayer that as God works in your mind, He transforms your heart, and helps you live differenly through your life.

At the heart of all human relationships lies the foundational principle of attachment. From the moment we are born, we are wired to form deep, emotional connections with others. These bonds, especially those with our caregivers, profoundly shape how we see the world, ourselves, and even God. Our attachment styles—the ways we form and maintain emotional bonds—impact how we engage with our loved ones and with the divine. Understanding these attachment styles, rooted in both science and Scripture, offers a powerful path to healing, not just for individuals, but for communities as well.

The Trauma Disruptor Coalition is a part of All God’s Children International (AGCI), and at AGCI, we believe that healing isn’t just psychological—it’s sacred. It’s the holy, everyday work of interrupting cycles of harm, reclaiming God’s intention for our lives, and partnering with Him to restore what was broken. In Scripture, we find not only comfort but a commissioning: to become vessels of healing in a hurting world. 

When we say “healed people heal people,” it isn’t a slogan. It’s a call to action. A dare, even. Because we at the TDC do focus on fixing the world “out there”—the broken schools, the violent systems, the hurting kids across the ocean— we also find it vitally important that we first recognize that true disruption starts closer to home. It starts inside.

That’s not a burden. It’s a profound opportunity.

At the Trauma Disruptor Coalition (TDC), we often say that healing is not only personal, it is generational. To heal yourself is to begin rewriting a story that has likely been passed down, often unknowingly, for decades. Whether it’s yelling, stonewalling, people-pleasing, or chronic avoidance, many of our go-to behaviors were once survival strategies modeled or inherited in childhood. But they are not destiny. They are habits of protection—and they can be interrupted.

At the Trauma Disruptor Coalition (TDC), we talk a lot about the power of healing. But less often do we talk about its shadow side: the grief that often walks beside it. Healing, after all, isn’t just about reclaiming what was stolen. It’s about mourning what was never given.

When most people hear the word trauma, they picture spectacular headlines—war zones, terrible accidents, dramatic rescues. Yet trauma is far more common and far more ordinary than the news cycle lets on. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimates that almost two-thirds of American adults lived through at least one traumatic event before they turned eighteen. One in six carried four or more such experiences into adulthood.

If that statistic lands hard, that’s good. It means we’re waking up.